Menopause has many faces

Many women, mainly those who are approaching the menopausal age, do not know what to expect. Unfortunately, husbands and partners seem to know even less about what menopause actually is. There are many women who have the idea that menopause is not much more than infrequent periods of monthly menstruation, potentially leading to the eventual end of monthly periods. Many women are also aware of unpleasant hot flushes, which will happen, but menopause is very much more than that.

As a woman approaches menopause, normality is changed by fluctuating hormonal levels, leading to unusual mood-swings and other unfamiliar symptoms. All the emotional and bodily changes can lead to confusion between partners about what to do to stay on an even keel. However, studies have shown that there are some things which may be harder for men to understand, especially when it comes to sexual matters. During menopause, women have to cope with issues such as bodily changes, lifestyle changes, health issues, low self-esteem, and often feeling hopeless and guilty about a sudden lack of sexual desire. This is a key issue in the symptoms of menopause, and can result in a relationship breakdown.

How both partners can help

To help keep the peace at home, as well as in the bedroom, and help your marriage survive menopause, here are some tips.

• Try to communicate with each other so that you can better understand what you are both going through. 
  
• Be flexible when it comes to mood swings, even if you cannot see why they are happening.
  
• Guys, give her a shoulder to cry on if she is feeling sad.
  
• Remember the hot flushes – the aircon may need to be turned up when it is already ice cold. 
  
• Be patient in the bedroom. 
  
• Never press the sex issue, but suggest a visit to the doctor by both of you to see what can be done about painful sex and other issues.
  
• Keep each other’s well-being in mind at all times

The good news is that menopause does not last forever, and there are hormonal interventions and meds which can make things easier. A major factor in any relationship is communication between partners, as well as openness when talking about your feelings. This will promote understanding, empathy, support, and help to keep your relationship stable. 

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