Have you ever been too tired to make love, or even go through the motions for sex? If you have and it is becoming something of a problem in your relationship, you may be inclined to believe it is because of the hectic schedule of your daily life. You always mean to make time to have sex, but somehow because of circumstances, even when there is time, the usual drive and eagerness for intimacy is just not there.
As a breadwinner, you may have a very busy job which sometimes gives you no free time during the day to take a breather – or may even cause you to occasionally get home late in the evening, feeling exhausted. Sex may then be the last thing on your mind.
If you are a stay-at-home mom, busy all day with the household, and looking after children, this can dampen any ideas of intimacy. Tiredness begins to reign supreme in the bedroom.
However, your hectic schedule and tiredness may not be entirely to blame for your lack of interest between the sheets. You could have a developing low libido problem, and exhaustion may just be one of the potential causes for your sex drive subsiding.
There are several other reasons why you might be wrestling with low libido. It may be linked to stress, anxiety, relationship problems, or even low testosterone levels. Many men and women experience issues with their sex drive, and getting help can be the first step in resolving a very treatable condition.
Making time for intimacy
If you are in a loving relationship, but find that a lack of time for intimacy is negatively affecting your relationship, there could be another reason besides the “no time” excuse. The real danger is that a lack of sex can lead to low libido.
Everyone’s sex drive is different, but if a lack of desire is distressing you, there are various causes which could be responsible. Low libido could be the result of depression, low self-esteem, a hormonal imbalance, unresolved conflict with your partner, or a possible underlying medical problem.
It is very important to make time to be together, but this becomes very difficult if your sex drive is not up to speed. Making time for each other, staying close, and spending time alone even if you get a babysitter once or twice a month so you can go on a ‘date’ together, is very important. Closeness and intimacy in a relationship can be just as important as sex, but relationships are notoriously hard work, and require a lot of attention on both sides.
Everyone is entitled to a happy and fulfilling sex life with a loving partner. Unfortunately there are little shafts of calamities which creep into the best of relationships. These difficulties seem to manifest themselves in sexual encounters which are not as satisfactory as they once were.
Don’t be embarrassed about getting help when it comes to sexual issues that might be impacting negatively on your relationship – it is a common problem for both men and women.
We can help
If your libido has taken a beating because of exhaustion, we can help.
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