Questions about what, is what in the bedroom
Couples in new relationships such as marriage, or partnerships, often have questions about what fact or fiction is when it comes to bedroom behaviors.
Here is a list of the more common beliefs - and whether they have any factual substance.
- A healthy sex life means doing it at least 3 times per week. This is fiction. Forget about comparing your sex life to someone else’s so-called ideal situation. All that matters is what you and your partner want.
- Many women say that they have faked orgasms. Research has indicated that this is true. Some men put a lot of pressure on their partners to have an orgasm, little knowing that all the pressure may turn a woman off. The answer guys is to relax so that your partner feels at ease with you, and will not need to fake it.
- Most women don’t like porn. Some do and some don’t. Some simply like erotica, but a man should always talk to his partner about what she does or does not like, before diving into anything like serious porn.
- Hugging can improve your sex life. Very true. Some people believe that sex and physical closeness are different things, but the two go hand in hand. Research has shown that levels of oxytocin, also known as the “love hormone,” increase during sex, hugging, and physical contact. Couples who hug and kiss, or hold hands frequently, make each other feel good and can improve your sex life.
- Couples often climax at the same time. This rarely happens. Focus on pleasing each other, and let nature take its course. If you are enjoying the sexual encounter, and a climax happens simultaneously – look at it as a bonus.
- Spur-of-the-moment sex can be great. Yes, it is great. But if you are waiting for spur-of-the-moment to happen each time before you have sex, you may be in for a long wait. If you are both busy with hectic schedules, it will help to plan a regular time when you can be alone. This need not happen every time you plan to have sex, but it can give you something to look forward to, and you may find that planning a time for sex could help build desire for both of you.
Everyone deserves to have a fulfilling, happy sex life, especially those in loving relationships. Unfortunately, there may stumbling blocks along the way to deal with in your quest to have the fulfilling, happy sex life that you long for in a loving relationship. Communication, respect, and consideration for each other will keep your relationship firm. The best way forward is to pay as much attention to your relationship sex life as you would to other issues in your general life.
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